When something doesn’t make sense, our first reaction is frustration.
The more you try to force sense onto it,
the closer you get to anger. What if that refusal to be fully understood is the point?
Think about it: every time life confuses you, it’s also forcing you to pay closer attention. A break-up you can’t explain teaches you more about love (and about yourself) than ten perfect relationships ever could.
Watching someone act in ways that defy logic cracks open your assumptions about people.
Even the random, cruel, meaningless stuff (illness, accidents, bad luck) quietly trains humility and empathy if you let it.
You don’t have to understand everything.
You only have to keep looking.
The more you look, more you learn the lesson life wants to teach you.
The lesson is always waiting exactly where your understanding ends.
Wisdom emerges not from mastering every detail, but from lifelong curiosity about the unfamiliar.